www.facebook.com/surfermj Just a regular guy here. I am gay (obviously) but that by no means defines every part of me. I guess if you were to describe me overall, it would be a masculine guy that is more of a metrosexual who likes guys.....not sure if that really makes sense...lol? I was born and raised in the midwest on an acreage and have those great midwestern values. Went to Iowa State University and graduated with a degree in Landscape Design/Horticulture. I moved to south Florida right out of college (Boca Raton), but have since moved to Jacksonville and have changed gears with my career. I am looking into going back to school to get a premed degree and then onto med school. In my free time I love the beach and the out doors. Surfing is my all time favorite past time. I enjoy working out and try to stay fit. Love running on the beach when I have time. I am not a big fan of the clubs. They are fun every once in a while, but I would prefer a nice bar at the beach where I can sit down and chill to some good music. I do like the finer things in life, but more so appreciate the simple/common things in life. Your results:
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I would love to meet a guy that is just a guy. I like a guy who is masculine, yet not afraid to be in touch with a more sensitive side at times. Not someone who tries to make all his pictures into modeling pictures, or has to have most of his clothes off in every picture. He is not going to be someone whose life revolves around the gay scene. I like a guy that has intelligence, is goal orientated, can take care of himself and is outgoing. Trust worthy, and honest are vital traits. I might be crazy, but I dream of a guy that I just can't look at enough, and who I want to be the last thing I see when I fall asleep and the first one I see when I wake. Someone who can make me laugh at times, but also be serious when need be and able to comfort me when I am down, and allow me to reciprocate the same things to him.


Typically the guys I have been attracted to are a little older than myself. I don't think it is so much the age, but the maturity level. Although I do love a fit guy with a flat stomach and great chest, to me, the most important pysical features in a guy are in his face. A charming smile and eyes that draw me in are amazing. I want to find someone who has similar interest, but yet can teach me new things and that we can both share experiences with and learn from each other. A guy that takes care of his mind as much as his body would be a perfect blend. I am obviously not going to marry the first man that comes along. I think it takes time to get to that point, but in the long run, that is what I want. I want that one person I can spend the rest of my life with. I believe in monogamy and not just a 5 or 7 year partnership that is over as soon as you get bored, but a lifetime partner who will stick with you during the good and the bad.

I am not into smoking or drugs and really dont care to be around guys that are. Drugs just lead to trouble.

Does this kind of guy exist? Not really sure. But, I keep hope that he will come along someday.